Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Financial Peace University Class 2: Relating with Money

BFF Dave is HILARIOUS. I would definitely be his friend.

Last night's class was in regards to how men and women relate with money - and our differences. I was laughing, as was the entire class, when various examples were thrown out because I could so see myself in one category and Peter in another.

In the past year I've had to (drastically) change my spending habits. I was guilty of being what BFF Dave called a "Free Spirit." I have an unhealthy addiction to shopping. I lovingly refer to it as 'retail therapy.' Let me tell you, my 'retail therapy' cost me more than my brief stint in actual therapy so my shopping wasn't always therapeutic. I have become more of a "Nerd" in the fact that I like saving money, I like seeing where my money is going and I am much more disciplined than I was in the past.

It's only been a week but I've made a few strides in my debt pay-down and savings:

May 17 New emergency fund: $0
May 17 Balance on my car: $7,426.99
May 17 Balance on my student loans: $46,248.21

May 24 New emergency fund: $115 (+$115)
May 24 Balance on my car: $7,444.11 (+17.12)
May 24 Balance on my student loans: $46,031.77 (-216.44)
(Balance is the wrong term; I should be using "Pay off amount" as that's the number I've been looking at.)

Totals for 13-week class:
Money saved: $115
Debt paid down: $199.32


**Principal Balance on Student Loans as of May 24, 2011: $45,943.88

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Virtual Insanity: 5k Facebook Event - Feel free to join!

I have been SERIOUSLY slacking in the exercise and motivation department. Through conversations with sparkfriends and 'in person' friends, I realize that I need to make exercise a priority and that I work best when I have a goal in mind.

Thus, Virtual Insanity was born. Virtual Insanity currently is a 5k challenge where those who would like to participate can pledge to complete a 5k on July 9th either by walking or running. While it isn't an organized event at a specific location, the beauty of it is that you can participate where you are and whenever is convenient for you.

I hope you'll join me! The virtual race day is Saturday, July 9th which is six weeks from this coming Saturday, May 29th.

The link to the facebook event is HERE!

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Financial Peace University Class 1: Super Saving!

"Winning at money is 80 percent behavior and 20 percent head knowledge. Most of us know what to do, but we just don’t do it." - Dave Ramsey

Last night I started my first of a 13-week class, Financial Peace University (FPU). FPU was created by BFF Dave and is designed to help you learn how to better manage your money. This week's class spoke about savings and how it is crucial to make savings a priority.

As I've mentioned before, the first of the seven baby steps from Dave Ramsey is to start a $1000 emergency fund. Though I have worked on this baby step in the past, my plan is to restart this step and hopefully save a $1000 throughout the class. While it is said most people can do this in a month, I know that would be quite the hefty challenge to do in a month so I'm giving myself a bit more time.

For this week, we will be reading various chapters in BFF Dave's book, Financial Peace Revisited as well as creating a 'quickie budget.'

So, here are my beginning totals. According to data from the class, the average person pays down approximately $5000 of his or her debt and is able to save approximately $2000 during the duration of the class.

New emergency fund: $0
Balance on my car: $7,426.99
Balance on my student loans: $46,248.21

I challenge anyone to embark on this 13-week journey with me! Maybe you would like to create your emergency fund or would like to try to pay off a credit card. Let me know if you would like to motivate each other along the way!

My goal is to post an update from the class and updated totals every Wednesday as my class is every Tuesday through August 9th.

Monday, May 9, 2011

it's not you. it's me.

dear former motivated-self,

i'm sorry. it's not you. it's me. i'm the one that has been lazy, been complacent and been eating like the world is ending tomorrow. but at least you'll be nice and warm with that extra FOUR pounds i have helped packed on over the past couple weeks right (in addition to the other four you had already gained)? no? bummer.

i promised to love, honor and obey our new lifestyle, perspective and body; however, i haven't lived up to my half of the bargain. i've been consistently nagging you to make poor choices and to skip out on exercising.

i know you are frustrated and this sounds like every other time you've succeeded in losing weight just to gain it back, but you have come too far to fail.

let's try this again. start over. fresh.
please?
-lazy self


dear lazy self,
you lied. you said that nothing tastes as good as skinny feels. that's a load of crap recently. i still feel that way, but you...you gave in! you had fried foods! you had a mountain-load of twix bars! you had margaritas! how can you expect to get healthy if you can't avoid, or at least moderate, temptation? huh?

you have so many people cheering you on and looking at you to be a good example of health. do you really want to let them down? more importantly, do you want to let yourself down?

you get ONE more chance to get it right. starting today. but instead of saying all of the right things, i don't want your plan. i want you to tell me what you've DONE so next week, i expect a full report showing me what you did all this week. whether it is exercising 10 minutes a day, drinking water, etc. i don't care. just SHOW me something.

believe it or not, i want you to succeed. so starting today, with your 4.4 (let's be precise shall we?) weight gain, you are re-starting - again - at 210.4.

your goal is to eventually be at 158, but for now, we'll take just getting you to 199.9...can you do that for yourself?

i miss being around. you are much more fun, energetic and you feel better when you are your motivated, active, healthy self.

get your act together.
-motivated self

Monday, May 2, 2011

Makeover May!

Alright. It's May. May 2nd.

That means there are approximately 117 days until our wedding, which also means I have 116 days to become the happy, healthy (and hopefully pretty) bride I hope to be - so I need a plan.

And I need a plan that is measurable, broken up over smaller goal points and manageable for me.

So, I've started with May. What is my plan for May?

Let's break it down even further, what can I commit to for the next four weeks from Monday May 2nd through Sunday May 29th?

Some of these goals might sound odd, but they are things I have been struggling with lately.

1. I will not purchase any of our trigger foods for our apartment. Trigger foods include but are not limited to: break-and-bake cookies, pastries, sweets, candy, take-out pizza, etc. I will be mindful of the foods that I purchase and examine nutrition labels.

2. I will use my Sparkpeople.com tracker to log my fitness minutes, food choices, water, goals, etc.

3. I will run a minimum of two times per week.

4. I will ride the stationary bike once per week.

5. I will participate in the 100-push-up challenge.

6. I will ramp up my beauty routine to make sure my skin, nails, hair, etc. look wonderful not only for the big day, but so that I start to feel pretty and confident in my daily life. Also, I must remember to take my vitamins.

7. I will switch my weigh-in day back to Monday. I feel like I will be more accountable over the weekends if I know my weigh-in is on Monday. I will continue to post weekly weigh-in pictures, and I will resume the pictures next Monday.

8. I will put a positive spin on things. For example, instead of focusing on how sore I feel from working out (or completing a 10k this past Saturday), I will remember that I pushed my body to do something that I didn't think was possible.

9. I WILL GET TO 'ONE'-DERLAND! Bye-bye 2-ville! (aka, in the next four weeks, I WILL get to 199.9 or less. WILL.)

Ready, set, go!